Let ME tell you about MYself...

I have always had a rather odd and perverted mind, even as a young teenager I used to fantasize about being tied up and touched in areas I didn't dare even mention, even in my head!

I had a very traditional upbringing, with church on Sundays etc, so the Saturday afternoon film watched in the lounge by the whole family was a regular thing. But in so many of these films the little woman would get kidnapped and tied up or even tied to the railway line awaiting the train. I would sit there and get very turned on by the thought that the woman was me, I would even will the kidnappers to hurt or sexually abuse the woman because in my head it was happening to me.

Now this was kind of scary for a young teenager to understand and I wouldn't dare talk to anybody about those feelings because I thought they would think me really weird.

My first experiences of being spanked were when I was just thirteen, a friend of the family was looking after me and my other siblings when my parents were out and I was a bratty teenager....he got fed up with my misbehaving and through me over his lap and spanked me really hard to the point of tears. Now it hurt like hell but I also realised that I loved it so when he came back the following week I played up again in the hope he would do it again. To which he obliged **grin** and he did it even harder. It stung like nothing I had felt before but I really loved it! Sadly this only lasted a few weeks before he realised I was actually enjoying myself so decided that it was no longer a suitable punishment. Unfortunately I didn't get spanked for a good many more years until about twelve years ago when I entered this wonderful lifestyle.

So now you know a little about where my submissive tendencies came from I shall enlighten you on when my dominant side came into play:

I was enjoying a scenario with another female sub and a dominant male and I was to spank her as hard as I could on her bare bottom, to start with I found it rather difficult but then seeing how much it turned her on it also turned me on and I managed to get my spanking so hard that my hand hurt! I got such a kick out of that, the power I had in inflicting this pain and not allowing her any relief from it. This situation became quite frequent until one day I was with a submissive male and I was suddenly aware of how dominant I felt over him and he submitted to me as though it was the most natural thing in the world. There was no looking back after that so I quite often have sessions now where I turn the tables on subs who think they can dominate me!!!!

So if you are looking to dominate me you will need to be strong in mind as well as your actions. You need to make me feel submissive to you not just be over powering, that is very important.

I also love role playing, getting dressed up in all sorts of uniforms and outfits, it makes me feel very sexy and obviously certain outfits bring out my submissive nature as do others bring out my dominant side. I think you can have great sessions when you are role playing as you can do things that would normally make you feel silly or too self conscious to enjoy.

Well I hope this has given you a little insight into my mind but do be aware that I am as harsh a dominant as some of my lifestyle dominant friends so don't think you will be getting an easy ride coming to see Lady fire. I have been known to out wit many dominants themselves as I have the mind of both a submissive and a dominant..........

Best wishes

Lady Fire / Alison Jane
xxxx